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Post by blueplanetii on Jun 9, 2007 2:21:20 GMT -5
Has this ever happened to you? Had something on your mind...weighing heavy..ready to come pouring out..you know you gotta say it..must say it..hate to say it..but hesitate cuz you know once you do its gonna be drama, cause pain/hurt or just be a turning point. Irreversable etc...Friends,family, lovers..whatever..just When shit really needs to be said..whats your style? Are you a blurter- Heat of the moment- type? or Are you more calculated, rehearsing, accounting for every possible response- type? In others words...band-aid off fast..or band-aid off slow? Just curious..  |
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Post by Mary Jane Burns on Jun 9, 2007 2:29:30 GMT -5
i think things out - & then in the heat of the moment instead of how i rehersed it in my head - i blurt shit out. & leave it hanging there in the air.
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Post by blueplanetii on Jun 9, 2007 2:40:27 GMT -5
^^^ Ya know? That happens with me more often than I would like  ..Id like to be the cool calm collected one... but I dont always succeed. |
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Post by upfromsumdirt on Jun 20, 2007 14:19:42 GMT -5
thats why i avoid bandaids all together...  the situation festers/gets infected/scars and eventually heals itself... (this nonchalant philosophy is patent pending!) |
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Post by blueplanetii on Jun 23, 2007 2:14:59 GMT -5
Dirt...You are wise as hell! Who knew? But seriously I feel what your saying...Another wise soul said almost the same thing as you.. I guess I could still learn a thing or two... And def hook me up with the 800 number so I can get me some of that nonchalanty stuff! |
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Post by getchristielove on Aug 21, 2007 10:31:44 GMT -5
i wait and wait and wait...espically if its work related. i wait and look at them while they are yelling. if i can i don't blink. i just stare at them with this blank stare. and all im thinking is 'dont talk, just don't talk. they are not even asking a question. ok. that was an allegation. now ..is her forehead pulsating..whats for dinner..i think she had those clothes on yesterday..oh god..im about to yawn..m. that would be bad'
so one time
i tuned back in and my boss said 'are you listening!! are you listening!!?? say something!!??'
and i told her to please stop yelling.
then she got madder.
and issued me a "memo"
in the beginning of having new sups, espically the ones who yell, i usually get a lot of memos.
if its a man, i wait til i have him on the fone.i never yell at a man to his face.
call me crazy but thats the stupidest thing i could ever do because
im so sarcastic. 'oh yeah...that was a good idea when they did it on that episode of good times..'
stuff like that.
sigh.
so im a hold it in then rub your face in it for the next month.
thas me.
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Post by poeticrebellion on Dec 10, 2007 19:05:12 GMT -5
Too often say what I gotta, with almost complete disregard
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Post by blueplanetii on Jan 1, 2008 1:26:23 GMT -5
^^^ I actually appreciate that when folks deal with me..I like to be told straight up.
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